Parents' Handbook 2019-20

11 People have different emotional levels. Especially when they're young. PASTORAL Housemasters and Tutors The Housemaster stands “in loco parentis” to the boys in his House, while they are on school premises – and he will try to help them outside the School as well, with the co- operation of parents. The Housemaster has overall responsibility for the wellbeing of your son during his time at Abingdon. The Housemasters are assisted by teams of tutors, who look after tutor groups within the houses. The tutor is primarily responsible for getting to know your son as a personality and looking after his academic development. At the beginning of the year, the tutor will check that timetables are in order, and, where necessary, will advise on courses and options. The tutor will monitor your son’s academic progress, and will write a general academic summary when school reports are issued. All tutors see their tutees for a brief period every day. Tutor time for each boy amounts to at least one hour a week, in which tutor groups discuss topical issues, choices, progress and current affairs. We regard this time as a crucial part of a boy’s educational experience at the School. Other Pastoral Support Boys may make arrangements to see either the School Chaplain, the Senior Nurse or School Counsellors if they wish. Contact details are on the website and posted around school. Personal, Social and Health Education The School recognises that education in the fullest sense means that it has a responsibility to convey information and provoke discussion on important ethical issues and matters of personal morality and public duty. All through + school, boys are made aware, in both a structured and an incidental way, of these and related matters through the contributions of tutors and Housemasters. The Head of Well-Being and team specialist teachers have developed a full programme of education, details of which are available to you if you write to the Head requesting them. However, the School does not, and cannot, pretend to offer to boys all the good advice and information that they require. The efforts of parents are at least as important as those of teachers in this field, and the School wishes to see its function as that of supporting the parental lead in fostering sound values and behaviour, rather than the other way round . Chapel Middle School year groups attend one service a week. Sixth Formers alternate weekly between Chapel and AltChapel, a secular thought for the day. Details of chapel services for boarders are published in the calendar. Parents of boarders are warmly encouraged to join their sons at chapel services when they come to visit them. Boys may be prepared at school for confirmation. If parents have conscientious objections, they may ask for a leave of absence from chapel or religious studies lessons for their sons, by requesting this from the Headmaster in writing. It should be noted that Chapel seeks to be an ecumenical experience.